Maybe he should bathe regularly, groom himself well, put on clean bed clothes, not treat her with contempt and be a thoughtful sex partner. I get so tired of reading articles like this. The matter of the fact is men are only permissble to marry when there is a geniune reason exists along with prerequisites. Perhaps you noticed something about your husband's behavior in real life, which triggered your suspicion in a dream. I hate my life ever day. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. Try to reconcile all the lack of trust or resentment. You mean rapeee!??? There are some important rules that must be considered especially for husbands who want to do (married) again. If a man takes a second wife and he does not make this second marriage public this is not Islamic. Ds my true life I am leaving with Allahs mercy. my husband Mustapha and I his wife Maureen appreciate the verses from the Holy Quron but frankly the rest of what you say is either useless or wrong. Not young enough or just plain not ENOUGH! So what happens when he is getting the respect, loyalty and physical attention from his wife and still seeking for wife no 2? I take care of myself, very physically fit, attractive and for being a westerner, I do not fit the stereotype of an easy american woman. Just so you know amongst those good humans are the good MUSLIMS. Allah knows best. wish. This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Islam is about logic and clear thinking. Mock or make fun of her. Where are the ahadith for this? I remembered so many years ago when the life of another woman depended on my decision and what my decision was. (i.e., Ramadaan) and guards her chastity and obeys her husband, it will be Why is that what mean want and/or need is some kind of standard and women should just be satisfied with whatever emotional crumbs her husband tosses? I know of at least five or more he been with them. Is the husband is being gentle when he has sex? You have both accepted something haraam and you have not means of entering Paradise, as it says in the hadeeth narrated by Ibn Sister, I would be careful about saying that multiple marriages disgust you. Islam opened the door and there are no conditions except like the conditions of any marriage (financial emotional and mental support) with the exception of justice and fairness.. He Thinks About Other Women An obligation to support the wifes life needs. Because ISLAM is the only perfect way of lifestyle. Well you should about that before gething married then, would you rather him go to someone else. man destroy your life and your family. Hibbaan: If a woman offers her five daily prayers and fasts her month Yeah so what if a we chooses to aim higher at least we dont sit on our back sides everyday and live off JSA every week. Sex hormones are released in the adult body every day. I imagine there is an article for things a muslim wife wont tell you, but you really put men high up on a pedal-stool, in the Islamic perspective women really are required to wholeheartedly obey and accept all the lust of their husbands. Some things may be hard to swallow for us women, but Allah swt Created us this way, so rather empower yourself with this knowledge and understanding, than bemoan and question the way of things. And about this respect issue, nothing comes by itself. It seems shes expecting some fatwa & if she is then tough luck, knocking the wrong door. Krishna had several wives. This is not an issue for me personally, but I really find this to be incredibly sexist (no pun intended) and its as if the womans feelings are totally unimportant when her husband is horny. marrying someone other than her husband when she is still married to her I believe you know the wisdom behind this command of Allah swt. In Islam, of course, this is permissible if the wife approves her husband wishes. Great Britain has four million more females as compared to males. Based on the above, you should push away all whispers from That hadith is BOGUS. But sisters. Please advise me. Muslim men like this sandwich maker wont understand what we women feel and how hurtful it is, Im a Muslim wife and I am telling you this from my experience , dear Paula save ur soul and leav this man and the ideology which branding women as mere brainless machines. It is a general misconception amongst Muslimah wherein they think it will be by their approval which will be required for their man to marry another woman or have more than one wife. The sahaba were real men and were fighters and very responsible people. I feel that he is not having any love for me. The reasons for allowing polygamy to continue, while restricting the total number of wives to 4, and placing limits on revolving-door style marriage-divorce-remarriage patterns, as well as explicitly stating the command that all wives MUST be treated equally and with absolute fairness is part of Allahs infinite wisdom, since He also adds a little later in the Sura that a man can NEVER treat all wives equally. You sir are correct issue at hand is that most people here are A. And most of these things go both ways, we know that,bathe author was just giving a males perspective. Im really not in the mood.. in Quran it was said to marry more than one. If I found out my husband was thinking about other women I would divorce him straight away. Thats extremely difficult these days. there are many ways a man can help and support other womans without having to marry them and having any relationships. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to marry more than one wife. There is no other religious book that instructs men to have only one wife. The punishment for giving out wrong information is severe. It is narrated from Imm as-diq (as): Three ladies went to the Prophet (S) to complain. IF you believe in Islam and Allah you will have to believe that if a woman refuses to have intercourse with her husband, then she is sinning. But how different the circumstances. But being responsible caring wives and homemakers we dont act on suc impulses. Sad to say, many many Muslim men are horrible examples of men, fathers and husbands. dream and the like, these are usually illusionary matters on which no shari It is a mans NEED. Thus, you are right when you ask how can this be right if it is destroying the first family. Your husband must be open and transparent with you in this matter and realize that his decision is detrimental to his current family if he does not resolve your lack of participation. If you still want to know more then as a sheikh. If he doesnt abuse you or sleep around. Make sure you marry a good person that will oblige to your wishes that is all. All the ladies grown up in west (myself included) like to think men and woman have the same rights ( I am not saying every body but there are some) . Both my husband (also 30s) and I were thrilled to be expecting a baby and this was very much wanted and hoped for. Salaam is it haram or halal to give ur husband ahead? Wow i guess its informative as well as helpfull ..JazakAllah. Perhaps hes not the best Muslim in the world.You can nudge him to make him better. Did your family find out details on him before marrying you? Out of them, nadima was married for four years. You dont understand it fully and you really should not say such things because you are actually saying that you ar disgusted with Allah! She is having a hard time, he said, she dont know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. Below here is the following hadith that explain this. May Allah swt guide us all. Do they feel you are the reason their son is not in Egypt taking care of them? So, now YOU move away from in front of the TV and make ME a sandwich. This is a very great blessing indeed, which is not appreciated by married to him. Where is the heavy duty never ending reminders from family, imams, alims, scholars to men that paradise lies at the foot of the mother, not the father or husband? do all this before you sleep and insha allah you will finally realise a lot more about a real marriage. Very good knowledge!! After some time, I found out that he took another wife. decreed jealousy for women and jihad for men, so whoever bears that with Ok guys , what I have to say has almost nothing to to with the article, and I apologize.I was just wondering what should a single, unmarrigiable women do when the desires that Allah Swt have her takes over.like I am under the marrigiable age. What makes a man leave his wife for another woman O ye who believe! The difference is of course in the idea that what we do is more for the sake of Allah Taaalaa than for ourselves. wife). Correction is painful. Just my observation. Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become public property. Men should also remember this aspect of our role model Prophet Muhammad (SAW) that he didnt marry any other wife till Khadija RA, the first wife was alive. I could not find the name of the author for this article. The way the Prophet did fair to his wives, Rasulullah SAW, we know that Rasulullah SAW has more than one wife. and he did with my permission, but they did not inform the woman that it is his second marriage. So really, #4 about him thinking of other women is not bad, that is his right. So the Prophet was married to one woman Sayyidah Khadijah until he was 54 and had 9 wives after that." (Professor Wahbah az-Zuhayli, VII, 169, 170) There are a lot of special reasons: 1. commitment. you enjoy the pleasure of living (Abu Dawud). Ive read this article & I feel this article is like imposing things on women. i often make excuses not to fulfil his sexual desires just because Im either exhausted working, seeing to the kids and the home or because i just feel thats all Im here for to satisfy him while he has a easy ride. SubhanAllah ladies , stop being selfish . Sometimes we screw it up and forget our anniversary. Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. Restricting each and every man to have only one wife is not practical Even if every man got married to one woman, there would still be more than thirty million more females in USA who would not be able to get husbands (considering that America has twenty five million gays). To those of you brothers who work at trying to be kind, considerate and loving to your wives, may Allah give you an enormous reward. The way I see it is, treat your wife how you expect to be treated back, treat your husband the way you expect him to treat you, men and women are equal, Im tired of these sick men that think they deserve everything when they dont give anything, has this guy ever thought about womens needs and wants?? There is no Hadith about men please note. Whatever I used to ask my husband he always said no for it but he wanted me to say yes for whatever he ask for. my dear kar, First weeks were reat but now lot of times we argued really bad even fight. Thats life. Roles of man and wife are divided in Islam. Polygyny is permitted in Judaism. Its only allowed on some cases where its really needed. Mam as everything without nikha we lived 5 years after dt my hubby convenienced dr parents I we get Nikha within one year my hubby attracted with other women bt I couldnt know how its happem. Nobodys perfect.Perhaps your husband isnt a Muslim scholar. Your dream is a premonition for a memory and brain power. A man in Islam should only marry no more and no less than 4 wives only. All I want to be is a nice husband and never take advantage of my wife in any way. 5 minutes 6 seconds Dream about husband with another woman can occur when women feel insecure, ignored, or reluctant about a particular relationship. Now I also got 1 boy child. Neglecting my children and the business. . High regard for women you have there. During our engagement period I found out that I cannot live with this man I spoke to my mother about it but she refused to listen to me. i met my husband 11 years ago and all through my marriage has been very bad and secrets and lies and he do haram to his body ..and the first month and before was good all was done halal but from problem s he did i lost all respect especially when i found out he had second wife i excepted it and became friend s to her because allah say,even it killed me inside i did this only for my children to still have father and i did as wife should do but the teaching he showed me i never believed from allah as allah is fair to both some people use islam for there own need s to cover there mistakes anything i did was wrong and man is like child most of time i was drained and anything i did good was wrong his haram was always halal to him no matter wat i said now its only me my children and i hope allah punish all man that put good wifes and children through this to suit there haram ways. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife. body-cover, or screen, or Sakan 2. to ask Allah of all that is good for you according to HIM. Below is one of the verses of the Quran that explains this. And I- as a man- am glad I was raised in a civilized way, and have the ability to control my instincts and aspire to something more. Yes, it is a sin for muslim man or muslim woman to have an extra-marital affair or a pre-marital affair, be it with a muslim or non-muslim. go on youtube and look for a video call things woman should know about man. If I love an older man but he is already married is it allowed for me to marry him, My name is Ayesha.. This may be found out by researching about the man and asking his friends and neighbours, and the imam of his mosque; you should not base your decision on emotions or unverified claims. Darcey Silva was a hopeless romantic when fans first met her on season 1 of 90 Day Fianc: Before the 90 Days in 2017. if the woman is given that and still ignores her husbands needs and wants then youve obviously married the wrong kind of woman, women shouldnt get away with being rude and disrespectful for no reason, infact they deserve to be left alone unmarried so they can learn and reflect and make a change in themselves. Even if we do not want to do it. (2) The lady is trying to get her daughter married. During paediatric age however, in childhood itself a female child has more immunity than a male child. I spoke about this in my article Love or Respect: Which Do You Prefer?. Salaam sister, quesrion; you dont rhink we are in times of war? @Marij Usmani If you want more advice on marriage watch https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jf6B4xk3kcI by Yasir Qadhi. the shaytaan that have to do with this matter, and do not give evil any way Bukhari and Muslim. He loses his job and the money gets tight. Sometimes we should just submit to what Allah made it permissible and what he forbids as its part of worshipping him. I hope this didnt hurt someone feelings. [Yoosuf 12:90], Is there any reward for good other than good?, And verily, Allaah is with the Muhsinoon (good-doers). Alhamdulillah Allahs made it a fair play for both men and women. If anyone ever asked, I would describe my relationship as strong, trusting, and extremely happy. "I was busy and studying. That is not to say that some very small minded muslim men dont take proper meaning in the hadith and use it to their advantage, and actually their disadvantage because they lose the love, loyalty trust and respect of their wives. disobeying Allaah or going against His commands, this is a sin for which he You have the right to your happiness and to be treated with respect. If you insist on self respect from the beginning then it will be the core of your lone life together In Sha Allah. Salaam to all Muslim brothers and sisters who are reading this article and its forum. the loves comes from ALLAH. No one should have to have sex if they dont want to! husbands doing haraam things than to their marrying another woman in a Marriage and everything within marriage is with mutual agreement!! A wise woman should accept whatever Allaah decrees for her, But we really would prefer to remember because we know it would make you happy. same does not apply to husband my dear.. thats what I hate about the whole thing.. there is not a word said particularly as an order like it is said to a woman through ahadith and verses of Quran to say yes to her husbands needs. I would remove #7 if I were the author of this article TBH. deeds), and is patient, then surely, Allaah makes not the reward of the Husbands who have more wives, They are obliged to provide a decent wifes life. My husband never ever thinks or talks to other women. I need some advice, it is a sin for a married muslim man to have a relationship with a Christian white woman or is it their right to have a girlfriend ? You may want to read about50 Akhlaq of Prophet Muhammad SAW. I was devastated by his sudden death. Nice comments you wrote there though, and I enjoy reading em. something haraam. So what ..its his right to do so 2,3 or 4. InshaAllah we all better ourselves and our relationships. subhanallah! Men are the guardians of women. Why is a muslim woman always told that the life in this world is a test and trial for her and she should accept husbands second marriage though it hurts her a lot. We want a gorgeous hero for a husband ad much ad you want a gorgeous wife. Have taqwa women! So when a man asks his wife, and this is a good point, the hadith says ASKS his wife, not force it upon her, and she says no without reason, in order to get back at him, because they are fighting and she wants to teach him a lesson. Going for Second Marriage: Do I Need Wifes Permission? (4) Will give birth to virtuous children. Good morning but women are allowed to ask for KHULA (which is automatically granted) if man is impotent. So if anyone is seriously thinking about polygamy they better be up for the job. If we cant get 1 right how can we get 2 or 3 right? Allah says, Then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four. (An-Nisa: 3) Quran is the only religious scripture in the world that says marry only one Quran is the only religious book, on the face of this earth, that contains the phrase marry only one. This Turning on can be on different levels but its always there, whereas, this kind of attraction in women is nothing as compared to men, so she should be creative in keeping him attracted to herself, and always welcoming to the sexual needs of her husband! You have all the right to maintain your self respect and If he still marries another woman without your consent he is destroying your self respect. We need to be more respected. Thankyou. one is in the case of polygamy he can refuse her husband of it if its in the nikkah contract. by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami, no. DONT EXPECT RESPECT. I read that, and I was shocked! Jazaakallahu khayran. Here are some of the rules in Islam that must be taken seriously. Many of the schools of thought also require a husband to fulfill his wifes sexual needs and this is not at all ruled out by this Hadith which I think some people feel it may be. If one talaq or two talaqs are Bayina, then after three months or three menstrual periods can be remarried. Jazakallah, May Allah reward u with Khair,, The brother mentioned that .. if the husband refused to please his wife intentionally and out of spite then hell also be cursed and have sins. Insha Allah I will find a lovely lady soon enough who will be a means of light within my life and for whom I will be of great comfort. There is just not one reason why Man is allowed to have more than 1 wife in Islam. We are true Sunnah Muslims Hamdullah. There was an immediate connection between us. As it is the duty of Muslims to fulfill all obligations, the Muslim husband cannot but honor such a condition. You should speak to him and say you're tired after working. In some of the following hadith, it is stated. 4.What guarantee do you have that Get to know the conditions required for it to be healthy and practiced properly. We dont tell our wives I love you often enough. Any true Muslim woman that follows the Quran and not her husbands list of expectations would know how to treat her husband, a stupid list like this is not even necessary. As we have said in many fatwas how Islam caters for the rights of women, men should not tamper with rights that Islam made inalienable to women, part of which is to respect their humanity. ruling can be based. Thats more than a little harsh (not to mention used in the wrong context). this waa not my decision but it was the doctor who told me to do an abortion as my baby skul did not formed and he would died as soon as he take birth.truly I did not want to do abortion but it was hubby who convinced me to do that.after abortion I had to do curettage.n truly I was appreciated when hubby took great care of me on the hospital. Second, third and fourth marriage is allowed by sharia. Chapter 4, Verse 34 2. Thank you. If you sincerely repent from your heart, then Allah SWT is Most Merciful and will wipe away your sins and transform them into good deeds. We married in the Church about a year before our baby was born. Because deep down, we really just want to make you happy. She said she never saw it coming because. You need more discipline in your life. A woman who cannot conceive a child doesnt have to be frigid. I would NEVER allow my husband to marry another woman. Sighhhh. denying the rights of one who has treated her well. This was shockingly one sided. India is one of the few countries, along with the other neighbouring countries, in which the female population is less than the male population. (960 A.D to 1030 A.D) issued an edict against it. Other women and couldnt wait to taste a man as well he told me about, that he desires men too. As salaam alaikum, dt will marry her , wat widow, divorcee who many men will not like 2 make as first and they need 2 remarry. You, as men should be fair to the first wife and the second wife you will marry later. If you are married only for treasure, then you are among the losers. Being fair in sharing the heart often makes men difficult, especially after did a second marriage. @Kay: can u provide some Daleel (proof) for your statements.I would love to examine them. If he loves you although you are May Allah grant us all taqwa and love and understanding of His deen. Seek safe counsel. if a husband truly loves his wife then he will never leave her. Let me know if you want me to reference that. patience out of faith and in the hope of reward will have a reward like that but my husband love me also, he told me that he will not leave me. It is also worth mentioning that your relationship with his parents probably has a role in this as well. 1) Respect is earned. With a marriage will create offspring and kinship ties. Dora, I understand that it seems like a contradiction (the husband trying to make wife happy but taking another wife) but remember that this is a something a man is allowed to do in Islam. i would never share my man with anyone even if its about someones survival. But if he does not do it purposely then he wont get sins. Or lets say what if she has average desire and she wants her husband every night nt just 50% or 33% or 25% of the nights. Let not your possessions and your children forsake you from the remembrance of Allah, whoever maketh them they are the losers. (Verse 63: 9). In marriage at least men are asking for HALAL sex , men are just more horny than girls so if you love your husband and he needs you to relieve his sexual desires then so be it . The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life. its not that you need to tie a pencil to it. Ameen. I disagree with #4. I feel. does that mean she would be cursed all night. foundation, not on a foundation of pleasing Allaah and His Messenger 5. It depends on wife to dress well and apply perfume and take care of his special foods to raise his desire. When he returns home, give him some time to relax and settle before you throw all your daily small issues at him. 2) If your sex was all that great, she wilo do the same for her. 2 If a woman accepts that and treats her husband and the we believe in the whole of the book and accept Allah swts rule even if we cant fully understand it because He knows us better than we know ourselves. It may be possible in exceptional cases of one in ten thousand. i loved a muslim man. Releases natural antidepressants. I agreed with what you said, now a days men can never be like our prophet peace be upon him. Another first wife, `A'ishah, says: "My husband was quite plain about his intentions to marry a second wife. it wasnt until 1 month before we married the he drops the bombshell on me, he tells me, I am married, have been 4 yrs now and I have 2 kids, Mind you we were together for 3. Theyre not loyal. doing something that is haraam, so how can he pray istikhaarah and claim This is not the case with all the men.. we are not chicks of the same hen. Though Islam permits man to have more than a wife, it stipulates that certain conditions are to be met in this regard, for Islams main focus is on building a stable marital life. Stop being selfish. This is a great article about men and how to keep your husband happy but why is there never any mention of how to keep a woman happy and what a man can do for a woman? If this evil practice is stopped, then India too will have more females as compared to males. Allaah says Islam Q&A, You can ask your question on the website via this link: https://islamqa.info/en/ask, Password should contain small, capital letter and at least 8 characters long, Log in However, if you are afraid that you can not be fair (between wives if you have more than one wife) marry one wife or provide with the slave girl you have (Verse 4 : 3), 7. Dear sheikh, As-Salaam `Alaykmu wa Rahamtu Allah wa Barakatuh. It also means being the head in forgiveness, understanding, love and mercy. It is very unfortunate that some women object less to their Encourage him to make Salaah at the Masjid. He said that I wasn't attractive and that he wants to spend the remainder of his life with a young and attractive woman. And if a sister gives him her all, it is duty of a man to be honest always. Being responsible caring wives and homemakers we dont act on suc impulses in front of the that. The pleasure of living ( Abu Dawud ) men, fathers and husbands I spoke about this my. 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